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FAQ's

Read to find out more information about the boundaries and do's and dont's - so that you can decide whether this service is what you are looking for! If there is any question that you have that has not been answered on this page, please do get in touch! (;

General Questions about the Service

Do you offer mutual bath/shower?

Not at the moment, as current bathroom is not suitable for this. However - watch this space, as an exciting BATH RITUAL option is coming BACK on the menu early 2024! Yay:)

Do you use scented oils?

This depends on your preferences. You may wish to choose from organic coconut oil, special scented massage oils (with essential oils) or a simple, non scented, organic grape-seed oil. Ideally, please also let me know in advance if you prefer less/more oil to be used for your sessions, as preferences vary.

What should I wear during the session?

The vast majority of clients are in their birthday suit. However, if you prefer to keep clothes on, that is entirely up to you. No one will ever touch you anywhere you do not wish to be touched - consent is incredibly important and will be sought prior to the session.

Do I have to shower before/after session?

Whether you shower after the session is entirely up to you, even though I highly recommend that you do. Showering prior to your session, however, is a must. I will be freshly showered for our session and will be expecting the same from you - to ensure high hygiene levels. You may use my lovely bathroom for a clean, hot shower (with modest London water pressure:).

Do you massage couples?

YES!:) I enjoy massaging couples. Please keep in mind, however, that I do not offer yoni massage (will be doing so at some point in 2024:)! You may wish to book a four hands session, to make sure that both you and your partner get the most out of the session. Feel free to get as creative as you like with each other. I also work with some wonderful people - both male and female - who are true yoni massage artists! :)

How far in advance do I need to book?

This very much depends, as my availability varies a lot. I would advise you to book at least a day in advance, to make sure you get a slot, as I am now offering no more than three sessions per day - to maintain good energy levels! :)

Is the environment clean?

Yes, the cleaning standards are very high. The studio is cleaned regularly, with bathtub/shower sanitised between sessions. I also use disposable sheets for each massage session.

How long is the session?

Your massage session is always booked for a full hour, 90 minutes, 2 hours etc. (depending on how long you booked:) - and this does NOT include shower time. I never, ever rush clients and you get the 60/90/120 etc.. minutes of massage that you came for, so feel free to enjoy a good, long shower before and after!

What if I arrive early?

If you happen to find yourself in the area too early, please do consider getting a nice cuppa in one of the many local coffee shops. There is no reception area and I usually cannot accommodate early starts - do not worry, once in, you will get your pampering and you will not be rushed out.

Questions about boundaries

Why won't you do oral? Do you not like it?

Another question I have been asked far too many times.

I LOVE oral, it's a wonderful, intimate thing which I enjoy giving as well as receiving. However, I find oral to be incredibly intimate - more than intercourse itself! - and, most importantly, oral pleasures are NOT STI safe. As I always play it safe, I would never put myself or anyone at risk. As some of you may have heard me say - "Five minutes of pleasure is not worth lifetime of suffering." :) Sorry! If you feel like you cannot have a massage without this, then perhaps it is best that you find someone else.

Do you really not offer oral? Even if I pay more?

Noooooo:)... the amount of times I've been asked this question! I have never offered oral as a service and never will, not even for more £, as £ is not worth the risks!

Only offers in excess of one million pounds WILL be taken into consideration. ;)

Is there a body to body massage?

Yes, we can incorporate body to body slides into your sensual massage sessions (and/or other massage sessions, too:). Connection and human touch are incredibly important and body to body slides are a great and fun way to spice up your session.

How is Consent Ensured Throughout the Session?

I always encourage clients to express their boundaries, preferences, and any concerns before the session begins. Asking too many questions throughout the session may be disruptive to some, but you are welcome to communicate any struggles that may arise throughout the session. Even if you give consent for your private areas to be touched prior to the session, you will normally be asked to confirm this once more, right before the intimate touch takes place.

Will you sit on my face naked?

Nope. :)

Anything missing?

If your question has not been answered, please do ask away... I'm only a few clicks away:)

Privacy Questions

Is the service discreet?

Absolutely. Your personal information is handled with the utmost care and stored securely - as per GDPR.

I will never initiate a contact with you (aside from where a pre booking has been made).

Please read T&C's to find out more.

Will I see any other clients in the studio?

We time session times very strategically and it is therefore highly unlikely you will bump into anyone on your way in/out! :)

Is bank transfer/card payment discreet?

Absolutely! If you decide to pay via bank transfer or by card, the reference that will show on your statement will be a very discreet one! Please feel free to get in touch to discuss further.

Facilities

Is there parking available?

There is parking available the area, however, you will need to book this yourself online. Both massage studios are very conveniently located - short walk from tube/train stations, so it may be a good idea to consider taking the tube/train! :)

Do you have a shower?

Yes, I do, please make yourself comfy and enjoy the shower amenities.

Does your studio have a step-free access?

No, very sorry.

Unfortunately, my new studio is not suitable for wheelchair users, but it may be accessible for those with limited mobility issues. There are four steps leading into the property. If you have mobility struggles, please do get in touch and let's see if I can help

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