Alright, let’s talk about why I don't offer oral sex at my studio, shall we? Even though I explain this on the website, I still get asked to perform oral sex far too often ... this past week in particular has been the week of oral sex requests - thankfully, the gentlemen were wise enough to ask in advance, before making a booking!
So, since some of you are wondering why oral isn’t on the menu at my studio, I thought it’s high time we clear the air with a dash of honesty and a whole lot of common sense.
Safety First, Sweetie!
First and foremost, darling, I’m all about keeping things safe and healthy—for both you and me. Oral sex, while it can be a LOT OF GREAT FUN, comes with a significant risk of STIs. Now, I’m sure we can all agree that our health is our wealth, and protecting it is non-negotiable. The idea of taking a risk with my health, or yours, just doesn’t sit right with me.
Condoms and Oral? No, Thanks!
"But I can wear a condom?" Ugh - Well, let me be straight with you: I believe the saying goes something like this: "using a condom during oral sex is like licking ice cream through a window."...? I simply don't see the point. The sensation is dulled, the pleasure is diminished, and honestly, where’s the fun in that? I believe in offering experiences that are rich, fulfilling, and genuinely pleasurable—not watered-down versions that will leave you feeling a bit short-changed.
Power Dynamics: Keeping It Empowered
Another reason I steer clear of offering oral is that it would mean putting myself in a submissive position, and that’s simply not my role as a sensual/ tantric practitioner. My focus is on guiding you through an experience of pleasure and relaxation, not flipping the script into a dynamic that just doesn’t align with my practice. I’m here to empower, not to submit. Simples.
Keeping the Experience Sacred
Tantric and intimate, sensual massages are so much more than some quick, sexual encounter! I thrive to bring you a deep connection, pleasant energy flow, and mindful intimacy. The goal is to create an atmosphere of mutual respect, where the focus is on building a profound, spiritual connection. Introducing oral into the mix can shift the energy in a way that doesn’t align with the sacred nature of this practice. I’m committed to keeping the experience pure, intentional, and true to its roots.
The Art of Sensuality
At the end of the day, I’m all about sensuality, connection, and creating a space where you can explore your pleasure in a safe and empowering way. My offerings are carefully curated to ensure that you leave feeling relaxed, rejuvenated, and , who knows, maybe even a little enlightened. So, while oral might be off the table, I promise you that there’s still plenty of magic to be experienced in our time together.
So there you have it, my dear sensual seeker! A little peek behind the curtain as to why oral isn’t part of my services. It’s all about safety, empowerment, and maintaining the sacredness of the experience. Let’s keep things deliciously sensual, shall we? 😘